Are you feeling…
Frustrated because your sex life has become dull and unfulfilling?
Afraid to be your true self and act on your secret desires and fantasies?
Tired of staying silent about your wants and needs?
Lost because you don’t know how to communicate with your partner(s)?
Unconfident in yourself and your skills as a lover?
Confused on how to integrate Dom/sub dynamics into your everyday life?
Burnt out with vanilla dating and traditional relationships?
Unfulfilled by the lack of depth and intimacy in your relationships?
Disconnected from your body or pleasure, having difficulty orgasming or having sexual performance anxiety?
Overwhelmed by trying to figure out the landscape of sexuality, BDSM, kink, and Tantra?
Afraid your partner will reject, leave, and ghost you if you open up about your desires?
Has a partner asked you to be "more dominant" or "more submissive" in the bedroom, but you feel like an imposter and have no idea how to bring that energy?
If you’re a man who wants to be Dominant, are you feeling unconfident with women, like you just can’t get it right, and struggle to lead them in the bedroom and the relationship?
If you’re a woman who wants to be submissive, are you afraid of the uncertainty of what might happen if you let go of control and struggle trusting yourself, men, or anyone with your care and safety?
Are you looking for a safe open dialogue to learn about your sexuality without feeling judged or ashamed?
If you answered “no” to all of these questions, great! You can close this page.
But if you nodded your head at least once and want to stop wasting energy and effort on unfulfilling relationships and a vanilla sex life…
And start cultivating deep intimacy and experiencing your most tantalizing and daring desires…
Then you’re in the right place. Keep reading.
There are 6 issues keeping you from the relationship and sex life you crave
Lack of Self Awareness
Societal programming has blocked you from understanding yourself, your desires, your emotions, and your own erotic mind. Then they tied a bow of shame and guilt around your cage.
Coaching will help you unlock your desire, giving you tools to explore yourself and experience core desires, establish boundaries, and know what you want without shame.
Poor Communication Skills
You and your partner continue to talk past one another and you struggle to openly share your emotions, needs and limitations without feeling shame, fearing rejection, or being judged.
Coaching will help you express yourself clearly, honestly and authentically, inside of a container of trust, openness and non-judgement so you can truly connect with your partner.
Lack of Confidence
You’ve become timid about your desires, afraid you’ll mess something up, and can’t confidently step into the headspace of the Dominant or submissive role.
Coaching will help you remove your roadblocks, become secure in yourself and your abilities, and allow you to confidently act on your desires and drive your partner wild.
Lack of Trust & Respect
As a submissive, If you don’t trust or respect your partner you won’t submit to them. As a Dominant, you might ignore, abuse, or disregard them. Both sides are wearing armor that keeps you from true connection.
Coaching will help you become a person who can be respected and trusted while helping you connect with others who authentically align with your relationship values.
Lack of Polarity & Chemistry
When your sexual connection becomes repetitive or feels like an obligation, it’s hard to feel truly excited, or fulfilled.
Coaching will help you embrace the polarity of Dominance and submission to create a passionate dynamic with hot, intense, sexual chemistry.
Poor Relationship & Sex Education
There’s so much…well…crap out there on the internet about relationships and sex. Finding high quality information, especially about D/s dynamics or taboo topics can be difficult.
Coaching will guide you to expansive resources and models for creating the relationship structures you want and types of sex you’ve been fantasizing about.
Gentleman, what if you could…
...cultivate unwavering confidence, take charge with decisive leadership, and exude the raw, magnetic power that draws women in, becoming the man women respect, desire, and willingly submit to.
What if you could learn the presence and behavior of a good Dom that protects, nurtures, and supports her, creating a safe environment for her to go from composed, proper “good girl” to a feral, sex-driven nympho.
What if you could become the Alpha and the Omega of her world. A place where she puts her trust, devotion, and confidence in you to lead her. In return, you’ll feel her admiration, respect, and ultimately her love.
The feeling that makes you feel invincible—like you could slay dragons.
Ladies, what if you could…
...have someone who will have your best interests at heart—someone who will care for you when you are at your most vulnerable, with complete surrender of control.
Where you are so loved and desired that someone is willing to care for you and keep you safe, no matter what, allowing you to explore your own desires and fantasies while really leaning into your submission as a part of a loving dynamic.
What if you could be in a state of tranquility, fully sinking into the pleasure of the fantasy realm—a special bubble without stress or pressure. A place where you don’t have to make any decisions, accept responsibility for what happens, or worry about anything—period.
It’s liberation and freedom from worry, anxiety, uncertainty, and the stressful realities of life. A state that recharges your mental, emotional, and spiritual batteries so she can battle through another week of life. A state of pure bliss.
It’s time to transform your sex life and relationships and unlock a level of intimacy you never thought possible…
Introducing Sex & Relationship Coaching
Private 1:1 (or 1:2) coaching to help men develop their Dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, fulfilling emotional intimacy, and integrating loving Dom/sub dynamics into your relationship.
Sex positive
Open minded
Non judgmental
Kink friendly
Spirituality friendly
Poly friendly
Here's what we could cover
Personal voyages of discovery into sexuality should be fun, effective and tailored individually. That’s my belief, and the experience of many people who have spent time with me. I am available to help you in a variety of goals. Some examples are below, but these aren’t exhaustive — it’s about you and your objectives.
I can help you with...
Exploring the realms of BDSM, kink, Tantra, and sexuality
Understanding yourself and your desires, needs, boundaries, and limits.
Understanding your own personal psychology and that of your partners that is keeping you insecure and from the mutual respect and safety you need.
Communicating with your partner with confidence and ease.
Gain practical steps to introduce elements of dominance and submission into your sex and everyday life in a safe and consensual way.
Mastering Dominance, not just in the bedroom, but in every aspect of your life.
Overcome codependency and people pleasing patterns in your submission.
Surrender to your submission from a place of self respect and strength.
Understanding alternative relationship structures and designing one that actually works for you.
Cultivate deep intimacy with yourself and others.
Learning the foundations of sexual polarity and how to embody your natural sexual magnetism.
Practicing the arts of seduction, touch, giving and receiving.
Learning to bring spirituality, emotional depth, and integration of the masculine and feminine into your relationships, D/s dynamics, and erotic play.
Expand the menu of what’s possible in your sex and pleasure.
Here's what coaching includes
Bespoke Coaching Package
Designed for those that need weekly accountability and want the quickest results, you will commit to 3 months of weekly coaching including the following:
Weekly 90 min bespoke deep dive coaching calls that cater to your individual needs.
Weeks for integration and practicing your new skills.
Between session text + voice note support from me.
Personalized resources or practices to support you in between sessions.
You’ll have the option to record every session if you’d like to revisit them.
Price: $800 Per Month
I'm Ready!Many clients choose to continue our work together beyond the 3 month mark. I find that this time frame is a good starting point. When we complete our first package we will check in about continuing our journey together.
Not quite ready for a full commitment? No sweat. Let’s have a single 90-min session. A one-off session is $197. If you decide to commit to a full package afterwards, I’ll put that towards the 3-month investment.
About Brandon The Dom
Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I was just like you once, full of a brimming desire to explore all of my sexuality and having no clue where to learn how to do so. Yes, the internet is a magical place, but it’s full of a lot of noise and fluff. It was hard to find in depth material by people who actually live this lifestyle. Which is why I started this website, to help guide you.
Let’s cut to the chase. I’m not going to BS you with a ton of marketing lingo to convince you that this coaching will radically change your sex life and relationships.
In fact, I know that what I have to share with you will change your life because people just like you tell me so…
Here's how to get started
Getting started is easy. Just follow these 3 easy steps:
Fill out the coaching application.
Schedule a personal 30-min call to see if coaching is right for you.
Pay for your coaching package and schedule your first session.
Price: $800 Per Month
Apply Now!Frequently Asked Questions
We meet online allowing you to be in the privacy and comfort of your own home. If you reside in Austin, TX, options for meeting in person are available.
Coaching packages are a three month commitment. We meet online - three times each month for three months. Each appointment lasts 90 minutes. We will find a day and time that can be our regular meeting time each week. We take a week off each month so you have more space to practice your new skills. In between our sessions, you will move toward your goals with full support from me. At the end, you decide whether another package would serve you.
It's up to you. You will have an opportunity to transform important aspects of yourself within this three month period. Many of my clients declare success after one series and move into a lifetime of fulfilling intimate relationships. Many choose to participate in two or more series.
I have no desire to have lifetime clients. I know that time is valuable. My goal is to support you efficiently so you feel confident flying on your own as soon as possible.
Each three month package starts at $4500. For three months we will meet regularly and we will be communicating in between to keep you on track as you make changes in your life. We will be in close communication, as much as you want, during our time together.
This is an investment. An investment in a fulfilling sex life and relationships, with yourself and others. The price tag is reasonable when you compare it with the cost of a lifetime of loneliness, a lifetime of pills and potions (or maybe surgeries), decades of psychotherapy, or the medical problems that come from isolation and anxiety every time you try to pursue intimacy.
Not quite ready for a full commitment? No sweat. Let’s have a single 90-min session. The cost for a one-off session is $197. If you decide to commit to a full package afterwards, I’ll put that towards the 3-month investment.
You'll never have a fulfilling relationship with another person if you don't have one with yourself. The work we do starts here – understanding your needs, desires, your nervous system capacity, and your openness to love. These foundations will benefit all aspects of your life, and prepare you for a relationship with another. In fact, many participants find that the work allows them to attract more fulfilling relationships into their lives. So, there’s no need to wait; the journey starts with you.
Yes! Just be sure to specify that you are wanting coaching with your partner on the application. I will meet with both of you initially. Then depending on you and your partner's goals, I may coach you individually on some calls and together on other calls. If you're polyamorous and have multiple partners, we decide when it's right to have them join you on a call.
While this coaching may overlap with areas you’ve explored, it also offers unique perspectives and practices, particularly around dominance & submission, masculine and feminine sexual polarity, and sacred intimacy. Even if some concepts are familiar, the depth of practice, and the opportunity to ask someone who has been a practitioner for a long time can bring a fresh perspective and deeper integration. There are always deeper layers of growth and learning to explore.
Absolutely! What’s most important is your openness, curiosity, and commitment to the process of transformation and taking action. In fact, it’s designed for those new to the world of deep emotional relating, BDSM, Tantra, & kink but who think they may want to try these in the bedroom or in their everyday life. If this sounds like you, and you want to explore the depths of relationships you could have, this coaching is for you.
