Designed for beginner to intermediate (primarily male) dominants, this page contains a collection of guides and resources designed to get you into the type of D/s dynamic you’ve only dreamed of. If you’re just starting out and don’t know where to begin, I’ll help you find your way.
Below I’ve collated links to what I feel are the most important articles I’ve written, to save you the trouble of digging through the website to find them.
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How to Be a Dom: 16 Steps to Becoming a Dominant Man
So you want to be a Dom? True masculine Dominance is in short supply these days. This complete guide to becoming a Dominant man will lead you through 16 steps to developing your inner and outer Dominance so that submissive women not only think you're a Dom, but can feel Dominance radiating from your core.
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BDSM Punishment Ideas
Having trouble coming up with unique and effective ways to punish your sub for breaking the rules? Get the inspiration you need by downloading my free list of 81 Ways to Punish Your Submissive and find the one that's perfect for you!
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Dom Sub Contract Template
Download my free Dom sub contract template complete with sections for rules, rituals, protocols, punishments, and builds a dynamic that suits your reality and makes space for both of your needs and desires. With this contract you'll be ready to start building the D/s dynamic you've always dreamed about.
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Dominant Dirty Talk Cheat Sheet
Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? Here’s a free dirty talk cheat sheet containing 74 dirty phrases for you to use with your submissive. Practice and use them to quickly and easily spice up your dynamic and sex life!
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Sex Menu Template
A sex menu is a communication and self discovery tool. If you have a hard time speaking about sex in person, your desires, and your boundaries, it can be easier to write it down. Most people have also never taken the time to really express what turns them on, what they want in sex, and just leave it up to chance. In my experience, great consistent sex happens with communication (and a whole lot of fun along the way.) This free, easy to use template features 350+ kinky sex acts you can rate, make notes, and share with your partner!
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