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What You Should Know About Consent in BDSM

Learn about consent in BDSM and the various models of consent including implied, express, and informed consent, plus the undervalued Wheel of Consent model.

A Pleasure Dom is Not What You Think It Is

What is a Pleasure Dom, really? If you think being a Pleasure Dom is just about giving orgasms, you're mistaken. This article will reveal to you what a Pleasure Dom is, their psychology, 9 sexy tools to use as a Pleasure Dom, how to be submissive for one, and an example scene for you to try.

How to Last Longer During Sex: 7 Proven Techniques

Cumming to quickly? Want to increase the amount of time you have intercourse? This article will breakdown everything you need to know about lasting longer during sex including the one must know concept of PNR and 7 techniques that will take from ejaculating mere minutes to lasting as long as you'd like.

3 Pillars to Structure the Perfect BDSM Scene

Want to craft a great BDSM scene? These 3 foundational pillars will equip you with an easy to use formula for you to create scenes that will help Doms and subs reach the heights of pleasure and depths of subspace.

7 Ways To Deal With Sexual Shame For Your Desires

Feeling shame for your sexual desires? This guide will give you 7 tactics for identifying the stories behind your shame and allowing you to break free from shame, accept yourself, and be able to flourish in your sexual expression.

BDSM Contract: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic (Free Template)

Ready to take your D/s dynamic to the next level? This guide will walk you step by step through structuring your D/s dynamic using a BDSM contract, sometimes referred to as a slave contract or Dom sub contract, complete with rules, rituals, protocols, punishments, and a structure that suits your reality and makes space for both of your needs and desires.

How to Be Submissive: 14 Steps to Becoming a Submissive Woman

Ladies, do you want to become a submissive? This complete guide to becoming a submissive woman will lead you through 14 steps on your submissive journey from understanding yourself, getting in touch with your emotions and desires, and finding a Dom you respect and can fully surrender to.

Relationship Check In Questions for Dominant/Submissive Couples

Want a way to keep a regular pulse on your dynamic? With these relationship check in questions you'll be able to express gratitude, address problems, uncover needs and desires, and improve both sides of the slash so that you have a healthy, loving, and thriving dynamic.

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Subs

Want to up your dirty talk game as a submissive? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, requests, fantasy, begging, being owner, and self degradation, with dozens of examples of submissive dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and invite your Dom to take you.

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Doms

Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, commands, fantasy, ownership, and degradation with dozens of examples of Dominant dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and never run out of naughty things to say.

How To Make Him More Dominant in the Bedroom

Wishing your man would be more dominant in the bedroom? Use these 5 easy steps rooted in his psychology to help encourage him and draw out that strong, masculine Dominance you have been craving.

Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State

Want to know what subspace is? This article will walk you through this altered state of consciousness, why it happens (and feels so great!), how to get into subspace, dangers and risks to watch out for, and how to transition out of subspace to avoid subdrop.

How to Be a Dom: 16 Steps to Becoming a Dominant Man

So you want to be a Dom? True masculine Dominance is in short supply these days. This complete guide to becoming a Dominant man will lead you through 16 steps to developing your inner and outer Dominance so that submissive women not only think you're a Dom, but can feel Dominance radiating from your core.

Sex Menu: Ultimate Tool To Quickly Communicate Your Desires

Having trouble communicating your desires with your partner? Try using a sex menu, a powerful tool for telling your partner everything that turns you on, quickly and with less anxiety about talking about your desires!

How to Fix a Sexually Incompatible Relationship

Struggling in a sexually incompatible relationship? Maybe your libidos are mismatched or you have different sex drives, desires, or relationship structures you wish to pursue. This article will give you three options for you can fix your sexual incompatibility and return to a thriving sex life.

8 BDSM Tasks to Give Your Submissive to Help Them Grow

Looking for tasks to give your submissive? Use these 8 types of BDSM tasks for improving your D/s dynamic, helping your submissive grow, and having a lot of sexy fun along the way!

Ultimate Guide to Sexual Performance Anxiety for Men

Feeling anxious about preforming in the bedroom? Experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation and unsure why it may be occurring? This guide to sexual performance anxiety will tell you what is, why it occurs, how its linked to ED and PE, and how you can overcome it to get back to a fulfilling sex life.

Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Relationships and Sex Life (Including Casual Sex)

What is your attachment style? Do you feel secure, or do you sometimes get told your clingy or maybe unavailable? Do you know how attachment styles effect your relationships and sex life? This article will cover everything you need to know about your attachment style and how to become more secure.

5 Tools to Communicate Your Sexual Turn Ons

You have so many desires you wish to have fulfilled, yet you don't know how to bring them up with your partner... Worse yet, you fear they will judge you, shame you, find you disgusting... How will you ever live out your fantasies? These 5 tools will make communicating with your partner quick, easy, and a lot of fun for the both of you, all within a container of openness and non-judgement.

Cunnilingus Masterclass: 9 Steps to Amazing Oral Sex That Will Make Her Scream

Want to learn how to do cunnilingus and give a woman the best oral sex of her life? The principles and techniques listed here are going to set you apart from all other guys who leave women completely unsatisfied after they go down on her (if they even do).

3 Tools to Discover Your Sexual Turn Ons

How much do you actually understand your turn ons? Has a partner asked you how they could please you, and you just kind of stared at them blankly, unable to describe your desires? Do you really even know what you desire? If not, then here are 3 tools to help you explore your erotic mind and uncover your deepest sexual desires.

Your Greatest Fear In A Relationship: They Will Leave You

What's your greatest relationship fear? Why are you always afraid to have deep conversations with your partner? Why do not enforce boundaries? Why do feel insecure? All of these are just masks of the same underlying fear: that your partner will leave you. Discover how this fear wreaks havoc on your relationships and what you can do to overcome it.

Men's Guide to Dominant Sex in the Bedroom

Want to have more dominant sex? Has your partner asked you to be more dominant in the bedroom? Or maybe it excites, but you have no idea where to start or how to develop your sexual dominance? Then this guide is for you.

A Practical Guide to Tantric Sex for Beginners

Curious about tantric sex but have no idea where to start? Want to deepen your emotional connection, enhance your pleasure, and feel closer to your partner than you have ever before? Then this guide on sex and tantra is for you.

5 Relationship Stages for Couples Pursuing Purpose

These five relationship stages are important for every couple to know whether your monogamous or non-monogamous. But if purpose is important in your life, these stages are not what you think are.

What is a Good Submissive: 7 Essential Behaviors for Submissives

Want to know the behaviors that make good submissives? Generally, a submissive is a person who willingly consents to relinquish control, authority, and decision-making to their Dominant partner. Submissives take on the role of being obedient, compliant, and responsive to the wishes and desires of their Dominant within the agreed-upon boundaries of the relationship. A bottom is someone who has the skills to receive acts from another person. But again, being submissive is the why and the intention behind those acts. So what makes a good submissive?

What is a Good Dom: 7 Essential Behaviors for Dominants

Want to know the behaviors that make good dominants? If you're anything like me, you were lost in the beginning when trying to learn what it meant to be a good Dominant. A Dominant is the person who takes on the role of authority, control, and power over the submissive. A Top is someone who has the skills to perform acts on another person. But a Dominant is the why and the intention behind those acts. But what makes a good Dominant?

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