Cunnilingus Masterclass: 9 Steps to Amazing Oral Sex That Will Make Her Scream

This article is about how to do cunnilingus and give a woman the best oral sex of her life.

Welcome to the Cunnilingus Masterclass.

The principles and techniques listed here are going to set you apart from all other guys who leave women completely unsatisfied after they go down on her (if they even do). All girls are different. Some will orgasm by step five. Others will need all nine steps. Some may never orgasm at all. All of those are ok. What’s important is that you take your time and allow her to enjoy all the pleasure she can handle. Let’s start with the underlying principles that are MUST and that most guys get wrong.

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4 Principles to Cunnilingus

Principle 1: SLOOOOOOW down. You’re not a horny teenager.

Listen. One of the biggest complaints women have about guys during sex is they rush everything. They are so hyper focused on getting to the finish line that it’s all over too quickly. You act like it's the first time you’ve ever seen a naked woman before and there will never be another one. We’re not Indiana Jones trying to get the tunnel and get out in record time.

If you want to really drive her wild, then you need to slow everything down. Women take time to build up arousal and get blood flowing to all of her erogenous zones. However, the longer you allow that arousal to build, the more pleasure and orgasms she will have, and the easier they will happen for her. The more pleasure and orgasms you give her, the more she’ll want to have sex with you in the future. So if you want to be entirely selfish about this, it’s in your benefit to slow down. Of course, you care about your partner's pleasure which is why you’re here.

So every technique you use here, I want you to slow it down. Think you’re going slow enough? Go slower. I want you to spend time in each step and really savor it as if it’s a rich piece of chocolate cake. 

Tease her. Build tension. Two steps forward, one step back. You want to make it at the cusp of being just a little bothersome, because when you do move to the next step, she will feel the pleasure of relief.

You’ll know when she is ready for you to move to the next step because her body will invite you to do so either by arching her body towards you, pushing her pussy into you, or literally begging you to lick her.

Principle 2: Order matters.

Probably a derivative of principle one, but we don’t want to go right to the goods from the get go. Many consider oral a part of foreplay. Well, there is foreplay before foreplay. If you start by directly stimulating the clitoris with your tongue before any warm up, it’s going to be too intense and possibly hurt her. She needs time for blood to flow to that area. 

Instead, start from the outside and work your way in. This means stimulating her entire body, with her vagina as the last part. When you reach the vagina, stimulate all the parts around the vagina first, saving the most sensitive part for last, the clitoris. 

Additionally, you want to start soft with pressure, and move towards hard with every body part. Each part needs time to get blood flow to the area and warm up. Once it's warmed up to touch, it can take a lot more intense sensations and feel immensely pleasurable.

Principle 3: Be enthusiastic! 

At this point, you might be thinking, “Brandon, this sounds like a long time…” This is where a lot of guys run into problems. They don’t have the patience to go down on a girl and they resent having to do so when asked. Then the girl feels like a burden and can’t orgasm anyways if her man does happen to go down on her. 

The problem is, you think you’re doing this for her pleasure only. But the secret to being a cunnilingus champion is making pussy eating YOUR pleasure.

I love eating pussy. I love how it tastes. I love how wet she feels on my tongue. I love seeing her arch her back. I love how much she moans. I love how she grinds her pussy into my face. I love making her taste herself. I could go on…

You need to find what pleasure you get out of it. Women love to know they are bringing you pleasure, even when the tables are turned so to speak. Plus, if you’re really enjoying it, you’re going to want to do it more and for longer, which she will greatly appreciate. 

In addition, you want to show how much you are enjoying it. Moan. Give her praise. Be sloppy. Tell her how good she looks, smells, and tastes (all of which she is very self conscious about). You know how much you love to hear her talk dirty and show enthusiasm when she's giving you head? Yeah, she wants that too!

Principle 4: Keep things wet

Pretty simple, but use a lot of saliva and keep things wet. You can use her pussy juices to help as you lick around. Otherwise it's going to feel like you are rubbing sandpaper down there and that does not feel good. Again, you know how much youlike when she uses a lot of spit when giving you head? Yeah, she wants that too!

How to Perform Cunnilingus in 9 Easy Steps

Step 1: Warm her up - foreplay before foreplay

If your lady is still dressed, I want you to take your time undressing her. Kiss her, nibble her neck, caress her body, and give it the proper attention. Take each piece of clothing off slowly, one by one, kissing and touching her in between. Be sure to leave her panties on because we are going to use them in step 2.

Spend plenty of time admiring and pleasuring every part of her body, starting from the outside and working our way into her more erogenous zones. 

After you’ve spent your due time everywhere, you can move into position. The easiest and most comfortable is to have her lay on her back and you lay prone between her legs. When you get there, spend some time kissing and nibbling her inner thighs before moving to step 2.

Step 2: Kiss over her panties

Next I want to start kissing around her panties. Kiss the top of her pubic area and around the panty line. You can bite and pull on her panties occasionally. Then kiss over her panties using light pressure, kissing up and down her vagina. As she starts moaning, move the panties to one side and lightly kiss her vagina lips, then move the panties back into position and kiss over them again. Remember two steps forward, one step back. Eventually you can slide her panties off and move to step 3.

Step 3: Start on the outside

Once the panties are off, I want you to return to kissing and nibbling her inner thighs. If she's a kinky girl you can bite and give a few slaps to her inner thigh. As you move from each thigh to the other, I want you to lightly breathe across her clit, letting your warm breath give it sensation.

Eventually you can move from kissing her thighs to kissing the outermost part of her vulva, the outer lips. You can even nibble ever so lightly on them. Move from the bottom to the top and over to the other side. As you reach the clit area, don’t touch it yet, and instead hover your mouth over it and breathe on it.

Step 4: The first lick - Dog Tongue 

By now she will be aching for you to actually eat her out. For the first lick I want you to make your tongue as wet and soft as possible, and lay the entire surface area of it across her vaginal lips. Basically imagine you have a giant dog tongue. Then I want you to lick from the bottom to the top very slowly, covering all of her lips.

Step 5: Orange Technique

Next I want you to cup your mouth over her clit and lips like you are taking a bite of a really juicy orange. Your top lip should rest just above her clitoral hood and bottom lip about halfway down her vaginal opening. You are going to create a seal around your vulva.

From there, you can test out different motions with your tongue like going side to side, up and down, or in circles around her clit. Find a motion that she likes and stick to it. Occasionally you can lick into the vaginal opening and back up to the clit to give a unique sensation and keep everything wet with her pussy juices. Find a speed, tempo, and pressure she likes and keep doing it. The bulk of your time will be spent in this step.

Step 6: Hold her down

As you're eating her out, you can reach your arms around her legs and place your hands on her stomach and hip bones. She will be moving around a lot, so you can apply pressure on her hip bones to hold her in place, which will be a little bit dominant. Sometimes she will move her hands down to hold yours or rub your arms as a way to create intimacy.

Doing this will do two things:

1. It allows you to keep breathing through your nose without having her pelvis pushing into your face and smothering you. 
2. It allows you to pull the skin of her mound taut so that it pulls up the clitoral hood, revealing her clitoris for direct stimulation.

From here, we want to continue the same motion, speed, tempo, and pressure we were using before, only now it's being applied directly to the clit which will intensify the sensation.

Step 7: Turn your mouth into a vibrator

Modern day vibrators often vibrate and create suction around the clit. We can create a similar sensation with our mouth. To create vibrations, make sure you have a good seal with your orange technique and then begin to hum, vibrating your vocal chords. Because her clit is revealed from its hood, she will feel the vibrations there. Next, I want you to create a slight suction on the clit by breathing in with your mouth while it's still sealed to her vulva. 

Step 8: Finger her

If she has not already orgasmed up until now, you can push her over the edge by bringing in your fingers for G-spot stimulation. As you continue to eat her out, place the back of two fingers on her pussy lips and gently stroke them up and down. Eventually, bring the two fingers together and place them at the bottom of the vaginal opening and let them rest with just the tips inside. Let her vagina tug and invite them in. Once inside, rub the top of her vagina with the pads of your fingers across her G-spot, the spongy, ridged area on top of her vagina. Keep a consistent pressure and stroke. From the top of your mound or pubic area, apply pressure with your hand which will better allow you to stimulate the G-spot from the inside.

Step 9: Make her taste herself

After she orgasms, or has been sufficiently pleasured, come up from between her legs and give her a kiss with her pussy juices still on your lips and face. If you’re feeling dominant, you can stick your fingers in her mouth and let her clean them off.

Cunnilingus Positions

Her lying on her back with you prone between her legs is only one of many different positions you can enjoy eating her out. Here are a few others that can be fun to incorporate so that sex does not become routine. 

Standing

Let her stand and you get between her legs from below. 

69

Either you on top or her on top. Just make sure you're focused on giving her pleasure.

Face sitting

Just as it sounds, she sits her vagina on your face. Some girls get self conscious about doing this and are afraid of smothering you. Reassure her and get her in a position that is comfortable for you both.

From behind

This one turns up the naughtiness or dirty factor, as well as allows you to incorporate anal play.

Legs above head

Adominant move that incorporates body bondage, you push her legs back over her head and hold them in place.

Picked up and against the wall

A very dominant move that requires a lot of strength, you can pick her up on your shoulders and eat her pussy while she is in the air.