get the sex Life and d/s Dynamic you crave.

Hey, I’m Brandon the Dom. I am a sex and relationship coach - and I help men develop their dominance, women to surrender to their submission, and couples to experience deeper connection, kinky and wild sex, and fulfilling emotional intimacy.

Get Coaching
Book cover
Free Access to Enter the Dom: The No BS Book on Dominance

Get access to a free chapter of my upcoming book to discover the secrets of becoming a better Dom.

Get Access

Start Here

Recent Advice Articles

Relationship Check In Questions for Dominant/Submissive Couples

Want a way to keep a regular pulse on your dynamic? With these relationship check in questions you'll be able to express gratitude, address problems, uncover needs and desires, and improve both sides of the slash so that you have a healthy, loving, and thriving dynamic.

Continue Reading

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Subs

Want to up your dirty talk game as a submissive? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, requests, fantasy, begging, being owner, and self degradation, with dozens of examples of submissive dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and invite your Dom to take you.

Continue Reading

A Complete Guide to Dirty Talk for Doms

Want to learn how to dirty talk so that you drive your submissive wild? This guide will you show you easy to use frameworks for praise, observations, commands, fantasy, ownership, and degradation with dozens of examples of Dominant dirty talk you can use in the bedroom and never run out of naughty things to say.

Continue Reading

How To Make Him More Dominant in the Bedroom

Wishing your man would be more dominant in the bedroom? Use these 5 easy steps rooted in his psychology to help encourage him and draw out that strong, masculine Dominance you have been craving.

Continue Reading

Subspace: What Every Submissive Needs to Know About This Drug Like State

Want to know what subspace is? This article will walk you through this altered state of consciousness, why it happens (and feels so great!), how to get into subspace, dangers and risks to watch out for, and how to transition out of subspace to avoid subdrop.

Continue Reading

Explore By Category